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"You see a lot more when people don't see you."

Hmmm before anyone claims this quote is mine......I took this from Kaavya Viswanathan's (de-)famous book "How Opal Mehta got Kissed, got wild and Got life?". Now I dint write the title properly I think. Anyways, you must have already got which book I am talking about. It was there on every news channel for it being plagiarized.

Whatever!! The thing I wanted to reflect upon was not this info about the other or the story. But I believe this line just could clearly depict what I meant, what I do and what I observe happening.

When I am buzzing with energy and in excited state, when i talk a lot ...every-time like this I find a lot of friends. But I hardly notice what's there real intention or what's there real attitude towards me or anyone.

When I am silent, I have less people talking to me, less people watch me, less no. of people take concern of what I am doing. Then I watch and observe others. Then you can really observe true character of your so called friend or just any person. It's not a spy story..but it just happens so in real life and works for just anyone.

People act to act differently when they are noticed. But when they do not know that they are being noticed they are their true-self. And when a person din't see you observing him/her he will just act his original and you can understand what he/she is.

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